Sugar, we’re going down…

When does a feeling really die?
When you fall in love with someone, let go and move on, could it be possible that you are not fully over them?
Is it possible to still feel pain, even when its source has long gone away?
How do you know that you got your closure?
Could something that lasted over a year, mean as much as something that lasted for a month?
Is it ok to wait for a divine answer without even trying?
Is it possible to get back something after you’ve lost it?
Is possible for someone to still think of you as they once did?
Could loving someone be with both your mind and heart?
Do you really think you can control your emotions?
And how long is it before you realize what’s important?
What do you do when you miss someone it hurts, but you can’t do anything about it?
How can you stand being away from your loved one day after day, night after night?
And why oh why do people lie?
Why do they break your heart?
Why do they feel the need to doubt ur love?
Why have they got so little faith?
Why do they work so hard on molding you, shaping you, spinning you into something you’re not?
And why do they ruin all the beautiful memories you had of them?
God I wish there were answers to these dilemmas! Do I even want to know?

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8 thoughts on “Sugar, we’re going down…

  1. I don’t think such feelings ever die. You just move on… and there will be others like them until you find the right person. We each have our soul make out there. It’s a question of finding them and recognizing them. And you’ll know it when you do. Bon courage :-)

  2. well kid, it is called love, its uniquely complicated.
    let’s say someone actually decided to find out those answers.
    in order to do so, this someone needs to fall in love.
    once done, he’s fallen too deep to be able to understand it. he’s at the “blind” stage. then comes the ups and downs, which are impossible to be written down and analysed since they are tooo many. let’s say he actually writes them, explains them and sets general rules about “Ups and Downs in a relationship”. the simple fact that they happened with HIS ONE PERSON makes those rules inapplicable in any other relaionship.
    it’s all about the bond YOU have with the other.
    this ONE is unique for u now. he’s out of the ordinnary.
    one day, if things don’t work out well, one day someone else will rock your world.
    and when they do so, its never definite wheither uve actually moved on from the one before or not.
    u convince urself u need the right closure.
    do u? who in the world would wana give up all that shivering he has towards the most beautiful creature they see in this world?
    definitely someone hurting soo much.
    where would the closure come from? the other person. the one who already broke one’s heart.
    so if falling and then moving on all depend on that one person,
    then definitely it could never be the same,
    so definitely no rules are to be set.

    i personnnally hope not to find answers, its the one thing that i would wana live for , i’d rather not understand it :)

    great thougts ritamou:)

  3. I read it the first time, and then re-read it, but with changing the questions into statements… only then i was able to fully grasp it and see the answers that i am sure ur not looking for…


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